Women and respect don't go hand to hand or do they?

I want to play a song that I adore.  Its called "if" by Destiny Child. 
And this goes for woman or man; there has been times where I would settle for a guy and what he wanted to do.  There is a difference between messing up a good thing and not doing what you want to do ladies.  I had to learn the hard way lol... it was fun at first, but when guys was getting too comfortable... I was like hold up but we ain't in no relationship, but the guy wanted to do the physical-ness of it.  I mean there comes a time in your life where you want to stop getting hurt because he's in someone else's bed not yours.  You should want more than that...or is that it?  When dealing with some men, you dont wanna act stuck up.  Men really dont like stuck up girls, they like the cool girls lol. So when you get too cool and get your feelings hurt.  What we say ladies? I shouldn't even talked to yo ass to begin with.  Look there are no rules of this game, so play it safely... ALL girls like to have fun, but if you didn't notice we call the shots.  They worst thing they can say is "no" and so the Fu*k what if they do... if a guy wants to get to know u...he will.  So demand respect in a sexy, cool, cute way...you can still be fly and demand respect men do it all the time; Now its your turn.